Returning with Invisible Baggage
May 16th, 2008 Posted in day to day, lifestyleWritten by Shanie
I just returned to Bariloche yesterday after a month of being with family and friends in the United States. It was so wonderful being with them– laughing, hugging, and conversing.
But there was something that occurred that I didn’t realize when I stepped onto the plane traveling southbound. I came back to Argentina carrying more baggage than I physically had with me. I arrived with a heavy load of homesickness.
I know that homesickness is a part of living abroad. When I lived in Germany I literally cried myself to sleep for the first three months of living there. But I haven’t felt much of the emotional, sapping energy in the three years living in Argentina. That is until now.
Tears readily stream down my cheeks whenever I try to talk about the wonderful experiences I had with friends and family. Speaking about the wonderful place my sister has found for herself in Hawaii should bring feelings of joy and happiness for her; instead, I feel remorse that I can not be closer and be a part of her growing up and finding her place in the world.
I suppose, as I fall back into my routines here in Bariloche, these feelings of a tender heart and missing of loved ones will subside.
But it does remind me that living abroad is never an easy thing. My personal growth of learning a new life, language, culture, and who I truly am without a close circle of loved ones is not without sacrifice. But is there any gain in life without sacrifice?
Homesickness is a part of this adventure. If I think about it more, it is a bit serendipitous that three years have easily passed by without the tears and longing feelings for a hug from a loved one.
Thank you to those relationships that mean enough to me that I yearn to be near them. Without them this life abroad would not be as rich in feelings as it has turned out to be.
3 Responses to “Returning with Invisible Baggage”
By Raymon on May 19, 2008
Shanie … What a beautiful entry. You captured “leaving” and “travel” and “homesickness” sooooo WELL! Thank you.
By livinginpatagonia on May 22, 2008
Thank you Raymon for such a nice comment.